lalupe11, she isnt outbidding you again and again, lol, what happens is when she bid- what ever amount she bid, you dont see.. you only see the highest bid needed to win. so u have to keep bidding higher n higher until it finally says that u are the highest bidder. like, its confusing, but say the bid is at 1000, and i bid 5000, its only gonna show you the highest bid needed to win, so even though i bid 5000, it will show i bid 1001.. so if you were to bid 3000, it will instantly say that you were outbid, and that the highest bid is now 3001-- than if you went and bid 3500, it will again say u were instantly outbid, and the highest bid is now 3501... now once u do out bid my highest bid- (the 5000) it will say u were the higest bidder,.. so if you went n bid, lets say 6000... it will say you are the highest bidder-- but will only show the highest bid is at 5001.... do you see what i mean?? it took me a while when i first started to figure it out.. i would get so mad that i was gettin outbid instantly. lol when you bid and it says u are outbid instantly, it will say "why was i outbid" or something, click on that and it will prob explain it better than i am. haha