look at your "badges" the first one should be a shield with a check mark in it. If not then just go into profile , I think you can verify it from there if you can't you can still bid. as long as you send me your address through listia messages so Listia can see it , I will ship it.
mmm , that should be fine, really won't know till you win a auction and verify. Try to win something little with free shipping maybe. Like a digital delvery auction or something.