Whoops, Hope someone steps in and wants the boys boots... I have just read Listia's rules on withdrawing a bid... The bidder is completely responsible for their bid, the seller hasn't the option of retracting. Please read these rules on the Listia rules: http://www.listia.com/rules
In part Listla's rules says:
Buyers
Carefully read listing information and descriptions before bidding.
Credits Awarded to Seller when: (Rule #3) Winner backs out or does not want the item anymore