well what i'm asking is which one is it. it syas free shipping on the listing, so the lady who bid will be upset if she has to pay shipping but the auction said free shipping. i just want to clairify, i have a bad habit of not reading what the auctioneer has written, just going bid crazy, lol. so is it free or is she gonna be disapointed and pay, thing is b/c it says free and you want shipping and she doesnt want to pay it and she contacts listia, i'm pretty positive they'll side with the buyer on this one. i guess since someone has bid and you didnt change the auction info, you should expect to pay shipping yourself. ok... that was a mouth-full! i should have been more clear earlier b4 someone bid.