Actually, it isn't always the size that determines the shipping costs. I sent a similar item as this last week, only box was smaller, and ended up having to pay quite a bit out of my pocket to cover it. And, that's after PayPal takes about $1 for their fee (and let's not overlook that packing materials are'nt free, nor the gas to take it to the post office, or deliivery confirmation charges that now must be presented when winner hasn't gotten the item). I started out charging lower fees than I do for our eBay store, and had to pay out of my pocket around $15++. I am trying to find a middle compromise; as I can't afford to give things away, and pay the shipping for it too. Sorry that I am not in a position to absorb these necessities. I don't know how others here can do it. Thanks for your concern!