I am the same way Bev. I hate to part with things but i can’t keep everything. I was an only child, grandchild, and niece. My Father sent word that everything would go to my step sister after asking me to visit him, I did then I got that call. I told them the last thing i needed was to get another house to go through. I was so made because I am his only blood daughter. I should tie things in court for eternity just because….he never, ever paid child-support.