my house is going to be torn down in a few weeks so im staying with my mom and sister at the grandmas house if i can wait till the first i will send out the cash if i dont than relist it
You can Deborah, but those settings are under "advanced options" (on the page where you list auctions) right under the Auto Relist options. You have to click "show advanced options" to set a starting bid. You can also only make changes to an auction up until someone places a bid, so at this point you're unable to change it.
I hope this helps. :) By the way, awesome auction!!!