fanned and watching... also paypal is the easiest option and you can get paypal to send u a debit card so that once the payment clears in paypal, it posts to the debit card that they sent you as well. also if you press the "reply" button when you want to comment on what someone said your replay will come up in a blue bubble and the person will also know that you replied to them as well just a fyi :) *asha rose*