May I make a suggestion??? If so, you will get more bids if you offer lower shipping. I do believe the padded envelopes are lots cheaper and you could wrap the candle jar in bubblewrap. Explore cheaper ways to pack it and ship it and you'll get higher bids. Many look at the shipping and figure they can go buy a candle for $10.00!!!
Yes it is flat rate shipping. I will try and ship it in something smaller than a medium flat rate box. If I am able to ship it for less, I will refund the difference. However, I do not think it will ship in the small flat rate box.