ally, I see you are bidding on a couple of my auctions so I took a look at yours and I see you are new and when you offer free shipping you should always start out your auctions with 100 credits that way you get a bidder you will get the 100 from that person until someone else ups the bid and How do you start out with 100 credits is when you list an auction down at the bottom where you submit it to the left of submit there is an advande option click on it and you can type out the credits you want to start the auction with also you can choose how many days. Shipping is expensive and I found that if you wrap the tongue ring in a piece of bubble wrap, tape it to a card like a christmas card address it and it gets to the winner 1st class mail 3-5 days and costs about 65 cents to send it