thats ok...i understand. i had another buyer at the exact same time as u (she won a gift card and cz necklace) ..she wanted to wait until i cld send it. she was so understanding... but still i felt bad- so i made it up to her by including the matching CZ earrings for free! if and when ever u do bid on one of my auctions... i plan on making it up to u as well!! : )