I will wait as long as you need if you communicate with me. I just hate it, when some one doesn't communicate with me and i wait and wait and then a month or more down the road i am still wondering if they want it. If you communicate with me i will give you all the time you need. I just can't ship until you have sent the cost. After i get that i will have your package in the mail the same or next day. This is a wonderful pattern and if you want it, I want you to have it. So it sounds like i was venting but i really am a nice person and will help you all i can.