DenimRose, so sorry to hear that the auction didn't work out. Did something go wrong? (I do hope that it was resolved... I have had the experience of winning and not receiving the item, I did get a refund of credits but was still quite disappointed with the situation.)
It is sad that this auction is still "live" when it has already been WON once and the only thing the auction person can do is post a " ?". Very sad indeed.
Sorry for your health issues; I just feel bad for the original winner. Perhaps you could have done an Update asking people to stop bidding. Communication is like Gold on Listia. Wishing you great health.