levynijasoras.....Unfortunately you cannot retract a bid thats been placed on an active auction. You can only hope that someone outbids you. I know how you feel though... I won one of this guys auctions a few days ago and he still has not contacted me. He became a member on like the 28th and hasn't been on her since the 30th. idk if he is ever going to check back in. You can file for a refund after 3 days. there is a little link at the top right side of the auction page if you are the winner. message me if you need help with this, i will help you. Its a big big bummer, I know!